What Movies Get Wrong About BDSM Relationships

Please take a moment to imagine your favorite elementary school teacher wearing a studded loincloth and a ball gag. That’s just a little bit weird right? Even though every bored housewife in America read Fifty Shades of Grey years ago, most of us think of BDSM as something to experiment with behind closed doors, in our freakiest of moods.

But, there are people out there who are in 24/7 master/slave relationships, complete with collars and/or certificates tagging them as lifelong partners. They’re not doing it to shock you or to “spice up” boring marriages — this is their marriage.

As you’d expect, the existence of these couples raised lots of questions in our minds. We talked to Rain DeGrey, “Valleycat,” and “Seven,” all of whom are or used to be in long-term BDSM relationships, along with Julie Fennell, a sociologist and BDSM-er who’s spent years studying her fellow kinksters. They said…

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